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032: Responding with Reproof


What You'll Discover in this Episode:

We live in a culture that walks on eggshells. We are sometimes afraid to correct someone because of the backlash we might receive. The world continues to spin out of moral control and it seems as though everything is permissible. However, as brothers and sisters in Christ, we are not called to be like the rest of the world. That means that there is going to come a time when we need to reprove someone and help correct their sinful action or there may be a time when we need to be corrected of our sinful actions. Either way, reproof is necessary to grow in our relationship with God. 

We must examine what our response might be if we are confronted reproof. There are several responses that are brought up in this episode about the improper response to reproof. One should never reject reproof, we must examine our lives to see if there is any truth to what is being brought to our attention and we must accept the reproof. There should not be a time when we ignore reproof, someone is going out of their way to help us grow and we should not ignore that individual. There is a punishment that comes with forsaking, rejecting, or ignoring reproof. If we think of ourselves as having no sin we are making God a liar. There must be self-examination taking place, the book of Proverbs tells us that there may be punished if we choose to ignore that reproof. 

 

As you listen to this podcast you will hear Pastor Jeff and Dr. Alfred talk about the proper response to reproof. The proper response is love. When you correct someone it is because you love them. If someone is correcting you it is because someone loves you. We are called to stir one another up, we are called to refine each other. This is the proper response to reproof, it is to be kind and loving. How will you respond when reproof is necessary?

  


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Highlights from Pastor Jeff and Dr. Justin Alfred

  • The wrong way to respond to reproof or correction is to not accept counseling. If you choose to not accept reproof or counseling, you are failing to recognize the error of your way.   
  • Another wrong way to accept reproof or correction is to forsake counsel. If you choose to ignore or abandon reproof you are not abiding by the Word of God.  
  • There is a punishment that will take place if you choose to ignore reproof. Spiritual death can be a result if you believe yourself to not be in sin. 
  • The proper response to reproof is one of love. If you offer correction it is because you truly love the individual and if you are being reproved you should respond with love for that individual that is willing to help you spiritually grow.  

Resources:

  • Proverbs 1:30 They would have none of my counsel
                            And despised my every rebuke.
  • Proverbs 10:17 He who keeps instruction is in the way of life,
                              But he who refuses correction goes astray. 
  • Proverbs 15:17 Better is a dinner of herbs where love is,
                              Than a fatted calf with hatred.
  • Proverbs 9:8 Do not correct a scoffer, lest he hate you;
                           Rebuke a wise man, and he will love you. 
  • Proverbs 18: 13 He who covers his sins will not prosper,
                               But whoever confesses and forsakes them will have mercy. 
  • Romans 7:8 But sin, taking opportunity by the commandment, produced in me all manner of evil desire. For apart from the law sin was dead. 
  • Galatians 6: 1 Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted
  • 2 Timothy 2:23 But avoid foolish and ignorant disputes, knowing that they generate strife. 

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